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Giving The Space That Is Needed / Thank You For The Kind Gesture

Life is so multifaceted as it relates to our day to day feelings. There are some people in our lives that we really want to have as close to us as possible. We love them for who they are, what they emit, and most importantly, what their presence in our lives does for our souls. This is a delicate dance at times because we always begin with "our" perspective. How does it make us feel? How should it be? How is it with other people from the past or in the present moment? We can really go deep with all of our questions, assumptions, and misconceptions. I believe that one of the hardest things for us to do in life is to just give the people we love the most the space that is needed. Letting them hit the wall and reach out  for you instead of actually trying to catch the fall before it happens.

   I realized today that one of my most important friends on this planet, thinks that I don't seem to be able to commit to spending time with them. This jarred me and then I realize…