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I Call You For My Highlights

Do you ever think about what your life does for other people? In other words, when you show up and speak or write, work, or just make a phone call. There are so many people in my life that are doing completely different things for a living and also those who are living way outside of the box. The question is, what is it about certain people that makes you call them over and over again? Do you call them to enjoy their fabulous lives over the phone and wish that you had their life?

  I had a conversation with a man that I have know for many years that lasted about 20 minutes or so. During the call, he asked me to update him on different facets of my life that went from personal to business to family. Truth be told, our conversations usually stay in the personal/relationships area. As I related my current goings on he was thoroughly amused and entertained. So I did what any other red blooded human being would do immediately afterward, I asked him about his life. His answer stopped me …

The Vocal Filter

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We when speak do we always say what we feel? Is it safe to say that the subject that we are in front of will change that from time to time? Those who say that they are straight shooters each and every time never seem to be around those who know them when the script has to change. This is not a criticism, its a truth.

   I consider myself an ever changing human being who is constantly learning what works and what does not based on the particular situation. People are strange units no matter how you look at it. If you disagree with something and aren't asked for your opinion, should you render it? If someone is going down a path that you are absolutely sure will lead to ruin, it is your job to let them know? These are all questions that will land on us all differently.

   If each and every one of us decided to tell it like it is each and every time in every situation, the world would turn on a dime. Why, you may ask? The short answer is, most people can't handle truth in la…